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About love

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Haruki Murakami sad that when people open their heart, they get better. That is one of the most amazing things I have ever read. We go through life mostly shut inside ourselves because we had bad experiences with people, in relationships, marriages or casual 'get togethers'. We give up too soon and for many years we walk this earth in fear of getting hurt again so we open up to someone rarely or maybe even never. We end up lonely. And when we do get into a relationship, we don't realize most of the times how relationship is a compromise where two sides find a common language and support each other every day. Sometimes we even forget to give before asking something in return. We forget that love isn't always rainbows and butterflies in our stomach, because there are days when things get tough, but those are the days when a true love shines through. Love is a symbiosis and it's a choice. Every day we choose to love that person whom we share our life with. Sometimes, we burden them too much with our problems forgetting that the other person is also a person with their problems and that they need support from us just like we do from them. Sometimes it takes a smallest spark to start a fire and sometimes we burn each other not even realizing that, no matter in what life situation we are, the most important thing is that we have that one soul beside, who is a reflection of us, with who we share everything and no matter where we are, we have a home away from home. We live for ourselves and for others and everything we do is for ourselves and for others because in the end it's all about finding someone who you wanna share good news with. ''To live alone one must be either a beast or a god.'' -Nietzsche

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Haruki Murakami je rekao da kada ljudi otvore svoje srce, budu bolje. To je jedna od najljepših stvari koje sam ikada pročitala. Prolazimo kroz život zatvoreni u sebe jer smo imali loša iskustva s ljudima, u vezama, brakovima ili ležernim 'druženjima'. Odustanemo prerano i mnogo godina hodamo ovom zemljom u strahu da će nas netko ponovno povrijediti, pa se otvaramo vrlo rijetko, pa čak i nikada. Završimo usamljeni. A kada i uđemo u vezu, ne shvaćamo većinu vremena kako je veza kompromis u kojem dvije strane nađu zajednički jezik i podržavaju jedno drugo svaki dan. Ponekada zaboravljamo dati prije nego što tražimo nešto zauzvrat. Zaboravljamo da ljubav nisu uvijek duge i leptirići u stomaku jer postoje dani kada stvari postanu teške, ali to su dani kada prava ljubav isija na vidjelo. Ljubav je simbioza i izbor. Svaki dan mi biramo voljeti tu osobu s kojom dijelimo svoj život. Ponekada ih previše opterećujemo svojim problemima zaboravljajući da je druga osoba također osoba sa svojim problemima i da treba našu potporu kao i mi njenu. Ponekada je dovoljna najmanja iskra da započne vatru, a ponekada palimo jedno drugo ne shvaćajući da, bez obzira u kojoj smo životnoj situaciji, najvažnija stvar je da imamo jednu dušu pored, koja je naš odraz, s kojom dijelimo sve i bez obzira na to gdje smo imamo dom daleko od doma. Živimo za sebe i druge i sve što radimo radimo za sebe i druge jer na kraju najvažnije je pronaći nekoga s kim želimo podijeliti dobre vijesti. ''Živjeti sama može samo životinja ili bog.'' -Nietzsche































Shorts- Fishbone (New Yorker)
Shirt- Mango
Bag- H&M
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